Thursday 28 April 2016

Behaviour Management Review

The Department for Education are currently undertaking review of behaviour management within schools. Quite a scary thought with images of schools embracing draconian regimes of punishment or dissolving into unfettered liberal wishy washy group hugs.

It's made me think, actually it's made me think a lot, about what I want from a school, what I expect from a school and what I don't want from a school.

It comes in a week when I've taken Flossy to visit the school that she is due to move up to in Year 7.  An exciting experience for any child but for a child who lives daily with the long term impact of her negative early life a one that is fraught with unimaginable and, at times, overwhelming anxieties and stresses. Why wouldn't this impact on her behaviour?

Later this week I then stood in front of 60 teachers, assistant teachers and lunchtime staff helping them develop their knowledge of the impacts of loss separation and trauma on children. Together we considered the implications for these children in a classroom and school environment. As I described the behaviours and causes I watched teachers nod to each other and mouth the names of children that they teach, support and deal with every day. The feedback was that practice could be changed not to pander to poor behaviour but to divert potential disruptions and help children feel safe, cared for and able to learn.

I'm an adoptive parent and that's my starting position. However, I understand that adoptees do not have the monopoly on trauma, loss and separation. In fact, at the risk of offending, I would suggest that many adopted children have something that many other children do not. They have motivated and articulate parents to advocate for them and support them throughout their school lives. I can't help but think of the children who potentially do not. The children in the Foster Care system and those on the edge of the care system, children living with loss through bereavement and separation or divorce of parents, children with parents in prison, children who experience sexual abuse and those that witness domestic violence or live in homes where it is present. The numbers of these children is staggering and they are represented in every classroom in the land. They significantly outnumber adoptees but they share common challenges. For all of them their lived experience has a profound impact on their behaviour in a school environment and how they respond to discipline and boundaries.


I believe that the behaviour review is an opportunity that we should grasp.

It is an opportunity to highlight the good practice and for it to be broadcast to new audiences. We can highlight the excellent work that is often being done to support our children in their behaviour in school.  How to appropriately challenge inappropriate behaviour. The difference between excuses and reasons for children struggling and disrupting classrooms and how to tell the difference. The teachers that go the extra mile, why they do it and what they do. The development and training of staff from the highest to the lowest and the values and ethos that underpin all of this..

How do we influence this?

Well, Tom Bennett @tombennet71 is the Chair of the Department for Education's Behaviour Group and is heading the review. I'd encourage you all to follow him on twitter and share the good, be that articles, stories, excellent schools or practical advice. If you're not on Twitter then write a letter, send a pigeon or draw him a picture. Lets get a hashtag #behaviourreview16 and use it.
Lets be positive and share the positive, let's be kind. We could set the internet on fire with some of the crap that our children have endured in the name of discipline, order and education but that's for another day.

School life is a huge part of all children's lives and good and bad experiences often wash up at parent's doors. Families of vulnerable children live with the impact of good and bad models and methods of discipline on a day by day basis and at times it's overwhelming.  I've seen it in my own children's lives.

We have a voice that many don't and if we can influence this review for good then we can benefit not only our own children but also the children that don't share the advocates and champions our children do.


Note: The review is due to be published in October.





8 comments:

  1. Will follow Tom Bennett with interest as we approach the release of the DfE Behaviour Management in Schools Review. I agree that many adopted children will benefit from motivated parents who advocate well for them. I would add however that fostered children should and often do benefit from motivated carers who access training to improve the support of educational achievement and advocacy for children's additional learning needs....alas it is often the case that foster carers are not recognised as the 'go to' parental figure but fall some way second best to over worked social workers thus information and concerns about children are slow to be shared and acted upon. I wonder if the review will promote the continued and increasing involvement of parents in school life, trips and school parent forums which bridge the gap between home life and school life and the behaviourAl differentials between them. My experience however of working in schools to support children who's behaviour pose a seious barrier to achievement, is the parents you need involved, motivated, encouraged and involved......are the parents that don't come inside the school gates.

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    1. As I wrote it I thought of the role of Foster Carers and I'm glad you highlighted it as they are often the most consistent advocates for the children that they care for. My concern in this review is that schools paradigm of behavioural management will steamroll any sense of what social care professionals and carers/parents now of the impacts of early life experience. The often challenging relationships between school and parents and carers will just be perpetuated. As always thanks for the comments.

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  2. Hear hear. All kids, both adopted and birth children need a good behaviour management approach and ethos at school. As you say, school life is a huge part of a child's life and I know my son was on the receiving end of some ineffective and sometimes damaging behaviour management. Will look up Tom Bennet.

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    1. Thank you for the comment. It's concerning that behaviour management has the potential to damage, though I have had significant concerns about some of the stuff we've seen as parents and some of the stuff that I've seen as a professional.
      Thank you for commenting.

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  3. Brilliant, I'll definitely follow and share. I would like to think that I am a positive mum and advocate for my children but I hadn't really thought about those children who don't have someone standing with them when they need help. The more we can share, the better relationships we can build with teaching staff can only be good for all the children in our schools. You are a star

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    1. Thank you, I try to be a star. Other opinions are available. I worry for the children and parents that do not have our voice or understanding.

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  4. so important that the reason for behaviour is looked for - stress -
    so the answer needs to be provide support, reduce stress not ever more focus and pressure on the child who is struggling
    room for maturing at your own pace, room for play, room for kindness

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    1. Yes, all of that. To manage children requires a knowledge of their inside worlds, their fears and motivations. It seems like we're just starting to think about that.

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