tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post92416564052160885..comments2024-02-23T06:52:46.801+00:00Comments on Al Coates - Adoption:Fostering:Social Work: Shame gameAl Coateshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04364194762953045888noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-25103896727702709202015-09-11T19:41:48.918+01:002015-09-11T19:41:48.918+01:00I worry that after six children by the time I get ...I worry that after six children by the time I get to the end of them I might just be getting the hang of this parenting malarky.Al Coateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04364194762953045888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-35392067331881397812015-09-11T19:40:42.113+01:002015-09-11T19:40:42.113+01:00You make a lot of sense, being able to reflect whe...You make a lot of sense, being able to reflect when caring and parenting children is a key skill, often overlooked!<br />Thanks for commenting.Al Coateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04364194762953045888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-84207475463285185252015-09-11T19:38:59.126+01:002015-09-11T19:38:59.126+01:00Slightly confused after reading 'Jamie Oliver&...Slightly confused after reading 'Jamie Oliver' book. I re read and now it makes perfect sense. Every day the significance of language becomes more apparent. Thank you for commenting.Al Coateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04364194762953045888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-15244143747798575322015-09-03T11:19:55.315+01:002015-09-03T11:19:55.315+01:00This is such a thought provoking post, I'm rea...This is such a thought provoking post, I'm really interested in how we build emotional intelligence as this was a key 'missing' part in my own education and is something I'm still working on, communication and language use is fascinating especially when our own upbringing needs to be reevaluated!there and back againhttp://www.thereandbackagainamotherstale.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-68216721742272572832015-08-31T10:35:13.900+01:002015-08-31T10:35:13.900+01:00That photo is scary. I'm thinking very regular...That photo is scary. I'm thinking very regularly these days how important our language is around our children. I'm reading Oliver James' book at the moment - great reading and very thought provokingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3096204059985406542.post-73159739039327814132015-08-29T08:34:46.943+01:002015-08-29T08:34:46.943+01:00Transposing my memory of this into adult language:...Transposing my memory of this into adult language: when asked 'why' you go inside to consider it, ask yourself 'why', but don't know the answer - so conclude it must be your nature, it's who you are. Thus who you are is the problem - you're bad. Then there is nothing left to do or feel but shame.Ivavnukhttps://mobile.twitter.com/ivavnuknoreply@blogger.com